For about 10 years, I've been wearing my
hair up and frizzy in the summer, and then in the winter I straighten it with product and blow dryer and wear it down. For the last few years, I've had to fight it considerably to get it straight in the winter. After reading
Jennifer's post, Rebecca texted me: "your hair would do that!" So I bought some new products, poked around on
the Curly Girl website (totally overwhelming!), checked
the Curly Girl book out of the library (less overwhelming), and tried some things.
Here's what I've been doing for 3 weeks now.
To wash my hair, I put a quarter-size amount of sulfate-free shampoo on my fingertips and put it only on my roots. I scrub my scalp with my fingertips and ignore the rest of my hair. I rinse it well with cool water by standing under the stream of water and just lifting and scrunching my hair to get all the soapy parts rinsed. I usually count to 60 to make sure I'm really getting it rinsed. I do not swirl, rub, or otherwise roughly disturb my hair.
My reasons: shampoo, even sulfate-free, can still be drying to hair and curly hair needs so much more moisture than I ever imagined. Cool water is less drying than hot water. Even while wet, curly hair is trying to keep its curl pattern, so I don't want to mess it up unduly.
Then I squirt
apple cider vinegar directly on my scalp and give it a quick rinse.
My reasons: my scalp likes to get itchy and flaky quickly, and the vinegar helps to disrupt that pattern. Plus, it removes any product build-up on my hair.
To condition, I use a half-dollar size amount of sulfate-free conditioner. This time, I ignore my scalp and scrunch it through my ends, getting to within an inch or two of my head. Then, I run my hands lightly over the top of my head, to hit the "hair canopy" where most of the frizz would be. I let the conditioner soak in for the rest of my shower ablutions. Then I stand under the water, cool again, for just a few quick rinses.
My reasons: conditioner is going to moisturize my hair, not my scalp.
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| Just done putting on gel: drowned rat look. |
As soon as I'm out of the shower, I squeeze the ends of my hair in a towel - no rubbing whatsoever! But no special towel, either, as Curly Girl would have me use. I just blot the water out of the ends.
Immediately, I flip over my head and scrunch
DevaCurl Light Defining Gel through the ends and up to about an inch from my scalp. I stand up and ignore my hair as much as possible until it's thoroughly dry, several hours. It will look fairly crunchy and 1980s gelled, which is a scary look, but Curly Girl calls this a "gel cast" and says you can break it by shaking your head and shuffling the roots. I find that just general living with kids breaks my gel cast before I get around to it.
The next two days, in the morning, I spray my hair generously with
water with a few drops of lavender essential oil in it. When it's quite wet and the curls are springing back, I flip my head over and scrunch in
One and Only Argan Oil Styling Cream. Then let it alone completely until it dries.
Some issues, notes, and questions I have:
1. Lorraine Massey (Curly Girl method) says frizz is just parched hair reaching out into the atmosphere for moisture; it's a curl-in-waiting. My hair is hardly frizzy at all anymore!
2. I'm not sure if I actually love how my hair looks. I can see it's healthier and I'm not fighting its natural wave, but do I actually like it? Thinking this might be a reason to seek out a Deva salon to get a good cut.
3. Apparently my wavy hair will adjust and develop more the longer I stay on this routine. I'm curious to see if I like the looks more, or if it gets more curly? I know it will be more curly in the summer humidity.
4. If sulfates are so drying for hair, should I ditch all the sudsy sulfate shampoos in our house?
5. My scalp is less itchy, but more flaky than pre-Curly Girl method. Not sure I have the stamina to brave the Curly Girl forums and do research.
Please chime in with what you know about curly hair, wavy hair, or hair care in general.